Emotional Mortgaging

Tracy Head • May 19, 2023

For the last few months I have felt a bit of a return to normal in the mortgage world. Fixed rates have

been trending down and we’ve seen some great rate specials available. More importantly, it has felt like a more balanced market where people are taking a bit more time to do their due diligence and make more educated and thoughtful (as opposed to emotional / panicked) decisions about their home

purchases.


The last few weeks I’ve felt a subtle shift. The housing market is starting to heat up a little, in that I’ve seen a few situations where there are multiple competing offers. Inventory still seems a little low which is likely fuelling  this. I have been dealing with two families that have taken completely different approaches. The first family is looking to right-size their home and move from a condo to a single family home. They already have two littles and a third on the way. They are wanting more space and a better neighbourhood to raise their children in.


They wrote an offer on a lovely home before they looked into their mortgage options. They came to me with an accepted offer and are madly in love with the home they wrote the offer on. They are willing to move heaven and earth to make it happen. The challenge is that they have not had an offer on their condo yet. They both make great income and have investments that will cover the necessary down payment. The trick is that if they have haven’t sold and have to move forward with their purchase they will have to use a private lender to make it happen because their ratios are too high carrying both properties.


Two years ago I might not have been so concerned but with the market being a bit slower there is

significant risk that their condo might not sell in the time frame they need it to.


If this happens and they choose to go the private lender route, they are looking at roughly $20,000 in

fees and closing costs and an interest rate of ten per cent. Monthly payments are $4400.00. They will not be able to rent out their condo because of restrictions in their strata. With strata, property taxes, and their mortgage payment they are looking at about $2600.00 per month. If they end up having to carry both of the mortgages for more than a few months they are going to burn through their savings very quickly. They may end up having to drop the price of the condo significantly which means they might take a loss on the condo as their mortgage balance is close to the break even mark after realtor fees.


They are determined to move forward regardless and quite honestly it concerns me. Another family I am working with has taken a different view. Similar situation and they can more than cover both mortgages if they have to. They have done a very thoughtful analysis of their finances and lifestyle and have taken the approach that it will all come together if it is meant to, and that if their current home doesn’t sell they will not put themselves in jeopardy to buy this particular home.


This approach makes me much more comfortable. What is the danger in the first situation? If for some reason they do move forward and their condo doesn’t sell for several months I don’t think they will be able to afford the payments on both homes. If they fall behind they will have no buffer left and could potentially end up in foreclosure. Maybe it doesn’t get that drastic, but the stress of carrying both properties will be overwhelming.


Before you write an offer on a home, I cannot stress how important it is to connect with a mortgage

professional to get your financial ducks in a row. Knowing what you qualify for (and if you qualify for

that matter) and the costs of making a move will help set you up for success.

There is often a way to arrange temporary financing to cover both homes, but the big question is does it make sense to move forward if you are madly in love with the home? Only you can make that decision.

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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Importance of a PreApproval

By Tracy Head • May 16, 2026
There’s a moment I see all the time in this business. A buyer walks into an open house “just to look,” falls completely in love with the place, and by supper time they’re talking about writing an offer. It’s exciting. It’s emotional. And sometimes, it’s exactly where people get themselves into trouble. I can tell you one of the smartest things a buyer can do before house hunting is get a proper mortgage pre-approval in place. Not the casual “I think we qualify for around this amount” conversation. I mean an actual reviewed pre-approval with income, down payment, credit, and monthly budget all looked at carefully. Because once you’re standing in someone else’s dream kitchen imagining where your coffee maker will go, logic has a funny way of leaving the building. A pre-approval does a few very important things. First, it tells you what a lender is likely willing to lend you. That sounds obvious, but many buyers are shocked to discover that what they want to spend and what the bank is comfortable approving are two very different numbers. Second, it helps you shop with confidence. In competitive markets, sellers take pre-approved buyers much more seriously. A seller who has two similar offers in front of them will almost always feel more comfortable with the buyer who already has financing lined up. But here’s the part I think matters even more — a pre-approval gives you the chance to figure out what home ownership will actually feel like every month. And this is where many people make a mistake. They focus only on the mortgage payment. The mortgage payment is important, of course, but it’s only one piece of the puzzle. Before writing an offer, buyers should sit down and calculate the total monthly cost of the home. That means including: Mortgage payment Property taxes City utilities Home insurance Strata fees, if applicable Heating costs Potential maintenance expenses Because the difference between “technically approved” and “comfortably affordable” can be huge. Let’s use a simple example. Suppose you purchase a home for $650,000 with a reasonable down payment. At current interest rates, your mortgage payment might land somewhere around $3,100 per month. At first glance, that may seem manageable. But then we add: Property taxes: $350/month Utilities: $200/month Home insurance: $140/month Strata fees: $450/month Suddenly the true monthly housing cost is closer to $4,240 per month. That’s a very different conversation. And if you haven’t done those calculations ahead of time, you may find yourself house-rich and lifestyle-poor after possession day. I often tell clients this: your home should support your life, not consume it. You still want room for groceries, kids’ sports, travel, retirement savings, and the occasional dinner out where nobody has to do dishes afterward. Another benefit of getting pre-approved early is discovering issues before they become emergencies. Sometimes we uncover small credit issues, missing documents, or income challenges that can be fixed with a little planning and time. It’s much better to solve those things before you fall in love with a home than three days before financing conditions are due. And please remember — just because a lender says you qualify for a certain amount does not mean you have to spend that much. Some of the happiest homeowners I know bought below their maximum approval and left themselves breathing room financially. Funny enough, those are usually the people sleeping best at night when interest rates rise or life throws a curveball. Buying a home should feel exciting, not terrifying. So before you start measuring living rooms for sectional sofas or debating paint colours, take the time to get a proper pre-approval completed and run the real monthly numbers carefully.  Future-you will be very grateful.

Owning vs. Renting: A Broker’s View from the Front Lines

By Tracy Head • May 4, 2026
After a couple of decades in the Canadian mortgage world, I’ve learned that the “rent vs. buy” debate isn’t really about right or wrong—it’s about timing, lifestyle, and how comfortable you are trading flexibility for long-term wealth building. Let’s walk through both sides with some real numbers, because that’s where the story gets interesting. The Case for Buying: Building Equity (and Stability) Let’s assume you purchase a home for $600,000 CAD with a 20% down payment ($120,000), leaving you with a $480,000 mortgage at a 4% interest rate , amortized over 25 years. Monthly mortgage payment: ≈ $2,530 First-year interest portion: roughly $19,000 First-year principal paydown: roughly $11,000 That principal portion is the quiet hero here. Every payment chips away at your loan and builds equity—essentially forced savings. Fast forward 5 years: You’ve paid down roughly $60,000–$70,000 in principal If the home appreciates at a modest 3% annually , your $600,000 home could be worth about $695,000 Your equity position: Original down payment: $120,000 Principal paid: ~$65,000 Appreciation: ~$95,000 Total equity: ~$280,000 That’s a meaningful wealth position built largely through time and discipline. Other advantages: Predictable housing costs (especially with a fixed rate) Protection against rising rents Freedom to renovate and personalize Leverage: you control a $600K asset with $120K down The Reality Check: The Costs of Ownership Owning isn’t just about the mortgage. On that same $600,000 home, you might also be looking at: Property taxes: $3,000–$4,000/year Maintenance: ~1% annually (~$6,000) Insurance: $1,500–$2,000/year So your true monthly cost isn’t $2,530—it’s closer to $3,200–$3,500 when everything’s factored in. And unlike rent, surprises are your responsibility. Roof leaks don’t call the landlord—they call your bank account. The Case for Renting: Flexibility and Liquidity Let’s say a comparable home rents for $2,500/month . Right away, you’re saving: ~$700–$1,000/month compared to owning (after ownership costs) Now here’s where renters can quietly win— if they’re disciplined . Investing the difference: If you invest $800/month at a conservative 5% annual return : After 5 years: ~$54,000 After 10 years: ~$125,000 Add to that your original $120,000 down payment (which you didn’t tie up in real estate), also invested: $120,000 at 5% over 5 years: ~$153,000 Total investment portfolio after 5 years: ~$207,000 That’s not far off the homeowner’s equity position—and it’s far more liquid. The Trade-Offs: It’s Not Just Math Here’s where the decision gets personal. Buying tends to win when: You plan to stay put for 5+ years You want stability and control You’re comfortable with maintenance and unexpected costs You value long-term wealth building through real estate Renting shines when: Your lifestyle or job requires flexibility You prefer predictable monthly costs You’re disciplined about investing savings You’re wary of market fluctuations or high entry prices A Final Thought from the Broker’s Desk I’ve seen clients build substantial wealth through homeownership—and I’ve seen others feel financially stretched because they bought too soon or too much house. On the flip side, I’ve met renters who quietly built six-figure investment portfolios… and others who simply spent the difference. The truth? Both paths can work beautifully—or poorly—depending on behaviour. If you’re buying, do it with a long-term mindset and a financial cushion.  If you’re renting, treat your savings like a mortgage payment to your future self. Either way, the goal isn’t just having a roof over your head—it’s making sure that roof supports the life you actually want to live.