Procrastination

Tracy Head • April 19, 2024

This morning I was up with the birds (literally) and really wanted to sleep a bit longer. I decided to listen to a podcast rather than get up. The podcast, ironically, was about procrastination.



Her general message was that procrastinating often makes us feel bad. There are things we want to accomplish or feel we should do but we choose the immediate gratification / dopamine hit of time in front of the TV or mindless scrolling (or more time in bed) rather than the satisfaction that comes with achieving our larger goals and dreams. 

She talked about procrastinating with both our actions and making decisions.


The irony that I was listening to the podcast rather than getting up and tackling my day was not lost on me. There were a few comments the podcaster made that struck home. 


Making a decision, any decision, is better than no decision. 


Human nature (for many of us) is that when facing a tough decision we freeze. We over-analyze the “what-ifs” and potential outcomes. We worry about what others may think of our choices. We may not even know what our options are. 

While procrastinating opportunities are lost or we dig ourselves in a bit deeper.


The last year in particular has been challenging with higher interest rates and a steadily increasing cost of living. Many families are struggling to cover their bills and put food on the table. 


I’ve written columns before about how if you have equity in your home it might be wise to consider a consolidation of your consumer debt to free up cash flow. Making lifestyle changes can be easier said than done.


I believe that staying the course and getting your mortgage paid off as soon as possible is always the best plan, but there comes a time when you also need to look at how your finances are affecting your physical and mental health.


When we get behind with our bills or are teetering on the edge of not being able to cover everything this month we are also concerned about what people might think. We are worried about a call from our creditors asking for a payment. We project a certain lifestyle and feel the pressure to maintain this even though we can’t actually afford it right now.


We lose sleep at night thinking about the “what-ifs”.


If you are in this situation and have equity in your home, I encourage you to take action to explore your options sooner rather than later. 


I have worked with clients who have never missed a payment ever but their credit scores were in the 500 range (not good) because they are over-extended and maxed out on multiple loans, credit cards and / or credit lines. 


Had they reached out sooner we would have had more options to help them with a fresh start. This doesn’t mean we can’t find options, but there are certainly more available when credit scores are higher. 


As a rule I don’t get into the discussion of why you would work with a mortgage broker versus a bank but this is one of those times. I do place many of my clients with chartered banks when that is the right fit.


When you approach your bank your situation might not be a fit for their lending guidelines. They may tell you they are not able to help you and that you will have to sell your home or look at a consumer proposal or bankruptcy.

Selling your home may be the right answer, but before you jump to that place take a look at other options. Pick up the phone. Don’t procrastinate.


If you are working with a mortgage broker they are able to explore multiple lenders and programs to help you try to find a solution to put you on the right track sooner rather than later. 

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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So Your Mortgage Is Approved

By Tracy Head • March 6, 2026
So Your Mortgage Is Approved… Now Don’t Break It By the time a buyer gets the call that their mortgage has been approved, the reaction is usually somewhere between relief and a sudden urge to celebrate like they’ve just won the Stanley Cup. After weeks of paperwork, bank statements, document requests, and answering questions about that mysterious $73 e-transfer from your cousin, you’ve made it to the home stretch. But here’s the thing many buyers don’t realize: a mortgage approval isn’t the finish line. It’s more like the last lap before the ribbon. And in this final stretch, there are a few things that can still trip you up if you’re not careful. As a mortgage broker who has watched this happen more times than I care to admit, allow me to offer a friendly list of things you absolutely should not do between mortgage approval and possession day. 1. Do Not Finance a New Car (Even If It Smells Amazing) You might think, “What better way to celebrate a new house than with a new truck in the driveway?” The lender disagrees. Taking on new debt before your mortgage funds can change your debt ratios, which were carefully calculated to get you approved in the first place. I once had a client proudly tell me about the brand-new SUV they bought the week before closing. Unfortunately, the lender was less impressed. Celebrate later. The house comes first. The new car can wait. 2. Do Not Quit Your Job to ‘Follow Your Passion’ I’m a big supporter of people chasing their dreams. But if your dream involves leaving your stable salaried position to start a kombucha brewing company three days before your mortgage funds… perhaps give that dream a couple more weeks. Lenders like stability. A sudden career change can send underwriting departments into mild panic mode. 3. Do Not Open New Credit Cards for Furniture, Appliances, or “Just in Case” It’s very tempting. You walk into a furniture store, see the perfect sectional, and suddenly there’s a cheerful salesperson offering “12 months no payments!” It sounds harmless, but that new credit line can affect your credit score and your debt calculations. Also, you may be shocked to learn this: the house will still accept furniture purchases after you own it. 4. Do Not Move Money Around Like You’re Running an Offshore Hedge Fund During the mortgage process, lenders carefully verify where your down payment and funds are coming from. If large, unexplained deposits suddenly start bouncing between accounts, it can raise questions. Questions lead to paperwork. Paperwork leads to stress. Stress leads to calling your mortgage broker at 9:45 p.m. Keep things simple and predictable until the deal is done. 5. Do Not Co-Sign a Loan for Someone Else You may be the generous type. A friend or family member might ask you to co-sign for a car or a line of credit. As noble as that is, lenders will treat that new obligation as your debt too. Even if your cousin promises they’ll “definitely make the payments.” Your lender prefers promises backed by math. 6. Do Not Miss Any Bill Payments Your credit report was likely pulled during the approval process, and lenders sometimes check again before funding the mortgage. A missed payment can ding your credit score at the worst possible moment. In other words, now is the time to be the most financially responsible version of yourself. The Bottom Line Once your mortgage is approved, the best strategy is surprisingly simple: keep everything exactly the same until your home officially closes. Same job. Same credit habits. Same bank accounts. Think of it like carrying a tray of drinks across a crowded room. You’re almost there—now is not the time to start dancing. The good news? Once the keys are in your hand and the deal is finalized, you’re free to celebrate however you like. Buy the couch. Paint the walls. Host the housewarming party.  Just maybe hold off on the kombucha startup for a week or two.

Reverse Mortgage follow up

By Tracy Head • February 23, 2026
Not long after my last column about reverse mortgages went live I received a thoughtfully written email from a reader challenging several of the points I made in my article.  He raised concerns about the cons around reverse mortgages and said he felt that I wasn’t diving into the potential negative impacts of reverse mortgage products. Most of the concerns boiled down to the erosion of equity in seniors’ most significant asset due to the compounding of interest over time. He felt that I didn’t show any calculations so people would not see the long-term cost of a reverse mortgage. When I work with my reverse mortgage clients I show them projections that include the interest cost. What people may not consider is the appreciation in value of homes over time. Reverse mortgage lenders don’t automatically go to the maximum allowable amount for every client (ie: “up to 55% of the value of the home”). Mortgage size is determined by the age of the client and the type and location of the home that they are in so as not to erode all of the equity in the home. Mortgages are done on a sliding scale so the younger they are the less equity clients have access to. The other piece to understand is that not every client pulls the entire amount they are approved for upfront. I encourage my clients to only pull what they require at the time and to have the rest available for if and when they need it. Initially I was not a huge fan of reverse mortgages for a lot of the reasons that he shared. However, I have many clients who are house rich with very limited income. People living on CPP and OAS can’t afford the basic necessities never mind any frills. Which leads to another reason I see the value in reverse mortgages. Many of the clients I work with have overextended themselves using credit cards or personal lines of credit and are in the position that they are making the minimum payment on their credit facilities by applying for more credit cards or loans, which leads to a spiral of increasing balances month over month with no way to repay these debts. Downsizing doesn’t always work because moving to a smaller home often means now they have a strata payment. Even if they downsize and have cash in the bank to cover living expenses, the end result is that they are still eroding that equity and now are not in the home they spent their lives in. I’ve seen reverse mortgages impact seniors in positive ways that you can’t even imagine. I’ve had clients supporting their middle-aged children while not having money to buy groceries. I’ve worked with clients who have needed to renovate their homes for accessibility issues due to health concerns as they age. I’ve seen clients leverage the equity in their homes to buy vacation homes. There are many types of clients who use reverse mortgages to achieve their financial goals. I do find that some of the loudest objections come from the families of clients. In these situations I first ask my clients if their families know the true extent of their financial distress. Next I ask if they would like to include trusted family members in the conversation so that we can address any concerns so that everyone is on the same page. Not all reverse mortgage clients are naïve. Many have already done their homework before they call.